I should start by saying that this post took me 2 months to get together. I'm not a reliable blogger, but I am trying to get better. Ok? Ok. That's settled.
I have always been an athlete. However, there have always been rules. I don't do soccer; in fact, I don't "do" any "feet sports". I also typically only excel at sports where there is a ball involved. I love basketball, volleyball, softball, football, and I can even enjoy a round of golf. Though, it's irritating that you don't get to hit anyone. I'm rambling. I didn't start this post to discuss sports. I started this post to talk about a journey. You see, on January 19th, 2014, I did something I never thought I would do—I ran a half marathon, and it was amazing. So much so, that I'm ready to register for the same race next year.
It was a different type of race though- it was a race at Disneyland. It was also a race with my very best friend (Stacy), and there is more on that later. First, we should talk about how this all began.
The year Jeff turned 29 (2012), he decided he wanted to do a Tough Mudder. Now. For those of you that don't know, a TM is 12 miles of grueling terrain and 25 obstacles (
Tough Mudder). So, not only are you running a long ways, you are beating yourself up with military obstacles all along the way. The beauty of that though, is that it really breaks up the running. There isn't more than a few miles to be run at a time. We did ours at Northstar in Tahoe. It was a wonderful experience. Many folks may also say that it's a little insane to do what we did. I can safely say that up to that point, it was the most physically (and possibly mentally) demanding this I'd ever done. It was also one of the most rewarding. Jeff recorded the whole thing.. you can see that embarrassment in
this 7:35 video. If you watch though, you
must watch until the end. It's my favorite part.
Fast forward a few months, in early 2013, we registered for the same Tough Mudder in Tahoe in July. Apparently the insanity was enough fun the first go round that we wanted to try it again. I also signed up to run my first real 10k in Santa Cruz. I wanted to see what this race-running was all about. While I never thought running would be an interest of mine, I did like the physical and mental challenge it proposed. As I've grown older, it's harder to find physical ways to challenge myself. Recreational adult sports leagues always seem to morph into weeknight beer leagues. Now, I'm not complaining about that, but it hardly lends itself to staying active. My beer-drinking skills don't need any additional practice. That's what Saturday afternoons are for...and the occasional (ok, semi-frequent) Sunday Funday.
So, with that, I ran 6.2 miles along West Cliff Drive in Santa Cruz in April of 2013. I'm not going to lie, it sucked. But, I did
run the whole thing—which is something I wasn't sure I could do. There were no obstacles, just running. I did have some incredible support in that endeavor though. My mama was out there on race day walking with a co-worker, and it's hard not to pick up the pace when you see your Mom around the next bend watching you huff and puff your way towards her. Jeff also played an instrumental role in race day for me. You see, I was a real jackass. I wanted to do this "myself" and actually told Jeff "no" when he asked if I wanted him to run this race with me. Of course, as Jeff often is, he was nothing by supportive. He's also, in matters of my stubborn nature, much wiser than me. He didn't make other plans for that day. Wise guy. When race week came, and I was starting to get cold feet and nervous, I chickened out of wanting to run alone. I think he was banking on that. I asked him to run with me, and he agreed. Jeff does Cross Fit, but he's not interested in being a runner. He is interested in hour-long workouts several times a week, however, and his body is accustomed to working hard for 60 minutes at a time. This serves him quite well when I want him to up and run for about an hour with me. Long story short, that race when really well. I enjoyed myself, and I ran. Those are two things I never would have imagined in the same sentence.

I started to register for more 10k races. Jeff and I both did. We somewhat agreed that no matter what our other health & fitness goals are, we both alway aspire to be "in shape" enough to run a 10k whenever we please. Our pals, and coincidentally one of our favorite couples, Josh and Michelle, are also into running 10k's. So, over the course of time, I know I can always count on them to be interested in registering for these races and also getting ice cold beers afterwards.
At this point in my story, I am a person who enjoys running 6 miles. I don't run that regularly, and I don't put on 6 miles at a time any time during the work week. I occasionally run, and if I know I am scheduled for a 10k in the near future, I put on some extra miles in the weeks leading up to it.
I have a policy in my life. A few, as a matter of fact. And the next part of this conversation includes two of these policies. 1) If your best friend calls you and invites you to do something with her, it's in your best interest to say "yes". This could mean that she lost a dare and now needs to streak through the quad and up into the gymnasium. You may initially regret saying "yes", but at the end of the day, you wouldn't want your best friend to struggle through that alone, and you'll be happy to have helped her out later. 2) Always say yes to a road trip—even if it's only to down to the bay bridge in the wee hours of the night. Chances are, it's a beautiful view. With these two things in mind, when Stacy called with a crazy idea in June 2013, I was all ears. One Monday, it was a particularly Monday-ey Monday at that, she called and said, "Heyyyyy, buddy" (like she sometimes does). She asked if I wanted to run a half marathon at Disneyland. My first question was "when?", and then I said "it doesn't matter, yes!"—and it was decided. We would run a half marathon together before Stacy got married in 2014.
A $175 entry fee later and props to Stacy's fiancé (that's you, Nick) for registering me the minute the site opened, we were registered to run in January of 2014 at Disneyland. With that, I decided that I probably needed to get serious about this running thing. While I can huff my way through 6.2 miles, 13.1 is an entirely different beast. It's more than twice the beast, as a matter of fact. Naturally, we consulted the experts and downloaded the prescribed Run Disney plan for the Tinkerbell Half Marathon. Seeing as my favorite all-time Disney movie is Peter Pan, it was practically destiny for me to run this race.
According to the training plan, I needed to start in September. I was following the "finish in an upright position" running program. That's a real thing; you can find it
here. Hiccup #1—I was leaving the country for a month in September. I didn't have any disillusions that I would be training while in Peru. Well, you know, except for that 26 mile hike over some mountains on a 4-day trek, but that's not running.
So, I decided I would need to start training in August and just get the first month out of the way. After looking at this running program, and setting some goals, it didn't seem so bad. The people at Disney are so wise (spoiler alert: this isn't the only time I will think this over the next few months). They hired some super snazzy runner to create a manageable, realistic running plan that actually seemed like something I could stick with. Now, knowing that I needed to be running at least 3 times a week in August, I took the whole month of July off—I'm talking beers for breakfast on the weekends. It was amazing. I mean, I still do that, but it gives you an idea of my summer before training. The plan was this: on Tuesday and Thursdays, run 30 minutes as a maintenance run. On the weekend, you run a longer run. These runs would alternate—every other weekend would be 4 miles. On the other weekends, you would gradually increase distance. It would look like this: 4 miles, 6 miles, 4 miles, 7 miles, 4 miles, 8 miles... you get the idea. I did my due diligence and investigated another training program to compare. Well, that's not entirely true. I called my friend Cambria (who just ran her first
marathon in 2013, go girl!) and asked her how to prepare. She sent me a training program that was
similar, but also required 4 days of running per week. And, frankly, I knew myself well enough to know that I didn't have enough drive to run that often. After doing that homework, I embarked on my Disney training program. Stacy and I decided to use the same training program—the idea being that it would make it easier to run together eventually. We live 2 hours apart, so running together all the time wasn't feasible. I'm not going to lie, getting into the habit was hard. And in the first few weeks, for sure, I wouldn't have made the long runs without Jeff. Once I really established an interest in the runs, it wasn't as much of a chore and I could be trusted to go alone. The Disney program also recommended a strategy that I thought was totally bogus at first. It recommended that I run in increments of 5 minutes. I would run 4 minutes, for example, and then walk 1 minute. You can break it down however you want, but that's what I chose to start with. The thinking is that if you give yourself a minute to recuperate, you will ultimately run faster overall by giving yourself mini-breaks. I gave it a try, and I tested it. I ran 3 miles with the 4:1 split and 3 miles straight, and I was flummoxed when the results showed that the 4:1 split made for a quicker time. It was settled: that's how I would run. I got Stacy on board.
Cambria also mentioned to me that her Garmin running watch had really changed the way she trained. It's a GPS watch that tracks all kinds of things: pace, distance, time, elevation gain, weather, route, etc. It also happens to come in
PINK! So, I got one—because who doesn't love a shiny new toy as motivation? I also hit up the Nordstrom Rack and equipped myself with some Nike Run pants (3 pairs) and some dri-fit running tops. Something that they don't tell you when you start running, if you have any boobs at all, they are going to hurt. I also started wearing two sports bras when I run, and that really works like duct tape. It's great. Before I started running regularly, I thought people that bought specific clothes for running were silly. I thought it was a conspiracy. I ran in basketball shorts and a tee shirt up and down the court my whole life, I could wear the same thing running. Wrong. So wrong. If there is anything I have learned about becoming a runner it's that being comfy is absolutely pivotal to training success. The day I made the switch, it was like my eyes opened.
I still remember distinctly the day the biggest phenomenon happened. Jeff and I were running from our house, passed his dad's house and down to the Santa Cruz Yacht Harbor. Part of the running program mandated that if you couldn't carry on a conversation while running, then you were running too fast and you needed to slow down. That took a lot of getting used to. I'm not good at that, even now. I am usually trying to get it over faster and re-training my brain to understand that faster wasn't better took some time. Anyhow, it was Saturday morning and we were out jogging. It was no more than 8am and the rest of the world was still a bit sleepy on a weekend morning. I realized while waiting at a red light, that I was truly enjoying myself. It was a big "a-ha" moment for me, and a turning point. I liked running. It started to get easier.
In November, Stacy and I had our first really extreme run. We needed to go 9 miles. We decided it would be better to go together, so I drove to Vacaville and we ran. I can safely say that we will never again choose a long country road for an up-and-back run. It was miserable— a straight line where the horizon never seems to get any closer. But, we did it, and we did it together. Lesson learned. This was also the first time we would run together on a really long run. Thank goodness for the 4:1 ratio training program. We ran together beautifully, at the same pace, and it went really well (except for the mind-messing road we were on). We decided to that we would make it a point to run the really long runs together.
Stacy came over the day we needed to run 13 miles, and to be honest, we were both dreading it. I took us to Nisene Marks, a State Park that I became familiar with on Thanksgiving when I ran a 10K there in the "Run for Pie". We ran with Josh and Michelle. Josh and I showed up in the same shirt.
#twinning
Nisene Marks is beautiful, with a partially-paved fire road under the redwoods. I hate baking in the sun while running, so the canopy provides lovely shade. It took Stacy and me two full lengths up and back to reach 13 miles that December day, but I've never felt so accomplished. I couldn't honestly believe that we did it.
Having a training partner made all the difference. A few weeks later, we set off on our Disney weekend journey. The plan was this: Stacy and I would drive down on Friday night, after the bulk of the traffic, and stay in Studio City with her eldest sister Melissa (Missi). On Saturday, we would meander to Anaheim and stay with my Grandpa. On Sunday, we would run our race and then pick eft & Nick up at the Orange County Airport and the four of us would spend all day Monday at Disneyland and drive home late Monday night. So, we did. We waved goodbye to Jeff and Nala at 7:30pm on Friday, January 17th, and drove into the night.
Around 12am on Saturday, we arrived at Missi's. I didn't stop to think of it before, but Missi's house was the perfect place to stop. I'll tell you why.
When we arrived, Missi let us in the side door, in a true sisterly fashion. She had to get up at 6am for work the next morning, so we only said a quick hello. Melissa is a runner. She is also, not so arguably, one of the most inspirationally uplifting people you will ever meet. I know, with full certainty, that I could call Missi in the dead of night, upset over anything, big or small, and she would talk me into feeling better. She has one of those personalities where there is no rain—no bad days—all sunshine. She took a journey to running her first marathon over the course of a few years, and served as an inspiration in this endeavor. In fact, when she first found out we were registered, she was the first person to reach out to me with words of encouragement. I've always been lucky enough to view Missi as an older sister, and I feel even more so after this adventure. You can see her races, rambles, and strolls
here! She told us how proud she was of us, and that was the first time it occurred to me that
this was a big deal!
We woke up on Saturday, and after a brief, but dramatic instance of being locked in Missi's house, set off for Anaheim. We needed to get to the race convention and pick up our bibs.
At the Disneyland Hotel picking up our packets—too excited to take a clear picture
The Expo was intimidating
Lucky for me, my Grandpa's house is literally across the street from Disneyland, so I was able to sneak in a slumber party at his bachelor pad (as he likes to call it). He lives in this amazing community of new condos, and if they were accepting applicants under 62, I'm certain I'd be there newest tenant. We were able to spend the afternoon and evening with my Pop-pop. My Auntie Mary also came over, and so did my cousin Danny and it was lovely to get to see them both. My aunt is an influence on the side of "rowdy", and when paired with my grandpa's wild nature, well, let's just say Stacy and I intended on having one glass of wine with the cheese and crackers and ended up half-buzzed in the wine aisle at Raley's at 3pm on a "wine run" before Happy Hour.
Spending a full 12 hours with my 90-year old Grandpa was about the only way I could want to spend a Saturday night in Anaheim. If any of you ever wondered where I get my quick-wit and inappropriate humor from, this guy is it. And for those of you that don't know, Adam and my Grandpa are identical twins, I'm sure of it. They have the same smirk and all.
Stacy and I set up the air mattress in the living room, and went downstairs to the community bar with Pop. In the evenings, after 4:30pm, you can bring your own wine down to the bar and enjoy your wine with other community members. Sometimes, there is live entertainment, like a piano player. If you know Stacy and I at all though, a room fully of chatty seniors is just our kinda place. We mingled, we wined, and then we dined.
Happy Hour—Grandpa spent 30 minutes discussing how the other folks were so old, and that he was finally glad to have some people there his own age to talk to (Stacy & me)
How can you not be charmed by that smile? And yes, he's a badass.
That's a pink shirt, and it's one of his favorites
Fun fact: there is some weird hand placement going on here. Pop spilled some wine on his shirt, and he would only be in a picture if Stacy covered it with her hand...so I was trying to even it out. Also, for any of my family members reading this, yes, Megan and Eric, that's your Grandma Kennedy in the background. I always love seeing them!
Well, after we made a sufficient mess of the dinner table, we proceeded to hit the hay. It was 7pm and still light out. It was amazing.
Our alarms went off at 3:30am on Sunday so we could get up, get ready, and walk over to the race by the 5am start.
Stacy had some really rad shirts made for this adventure. This is hers:
Mine said "Eat my Pixie Dust". Stacy is spectacular.
As we were walking over to the race, me begrudgingly (as you can imagine me before 5am), I was taking the 2 block walk as an opportunity to properly bitch about how stupid running was and how I was never running a half marathon again. I lose my patience and interest at about 7 miles. Fast forward about 15 minutes, to the sound of the first fireworks. That's right, fireworks...at 4:45am on a Sunday. Fireworks and Disney princess music. By the time we got to the starting line, we had already picked out our outfits for next year. Add some sparkles and a girl's whole attitude will change.
Now, I'm not going to lie, it was really hard. Short of the Tough Mudder and hiking the Inca Trail in Peru, running this half marathon was one of the hardest things I'd ever done. I can safely say that I would have been way less interested if there weren't Disney characters involved.
We didn't cross the starting line until 5:40am, there were that many people there. That many sparkly-festooned running whacks. It was awesome. There was such a sense of spirit. Not to mention, the loads of boyfriends, husbands, dads, and kids holding up inspirational signs all along the way. It was really something. We were finally off to a start as it was starting to get light out. It took about 2 miles before we were in the park, but then we were IN THE PARK. We had agreed the night before that we'd done all the training, and that we knew we could run the miles, but that we wanted to make sure to take in the whole experience. We stopped for all the best photo opportunities.
Pure magic
PETER & WENDY! I was pretty much in heaven.
As evidenced by the photos, we were taking our sweet time inside the park. We had just wound around the Matterhorn and got into a 50 person line to take pictures with Cindy (Stacy's fave princess), when the bike riding pacer came by waving her timing flag and letingt us know that they would be making a cut-off soon. WHATTT??? I didn't even know that this was something that actually happened! Then, we realized that we were on pace for a 16:00 mile, which is about 4:30 minutes longer than our training pace. We freaked. We had spent way too much time photo-taking. So, we did the logically thing—bailed on the princess and started a dead sprint, through a crowd, for about a mile. We ran until we were sure we were safe from cut-off and then we slowed down to a more human pace.
Still scary.
We spent until mile 5 winding through the park. After that, we were on the streets of Anaheim. Without the distraction of Disneyland, I don't think I would have made it, and I don't know that I will ever do another non-Disney half marathon. But, as I've learned, I'll never say never. Miles 7-10 were truly brutal. There is nothing to see on the streets of downtown Anaheim. Let me tell you, Disneyland is the only thing Anaheim has to offer.
After mile 10, I started to feel good again. The idea of finishing was in grasp. And, the last few miles all blend together. There was a lot of "woo-ing" and pep talks.
But, I will tell you, I've never felt a feeling like crossing the finish line. Stacy and I gave a good ol' "best friend high five" and it was over.
We got our medals—which are rad—and walked back to Grandpa's house for breakfast.
13.1 Finishers! Best friends.
So, with that under our belts, we picked the boys up at the airport (Jeff & Nick) and checked in to our hotel. We went for a swim, took a nap, ordered pizza, drank beer, and rested up for the next day at Disneyland with our Princes.
They are getting married... it's going to be a wild ride
They can be Buzz Lightyear
We are definitely Woody. And we are Astro Blasters
We are not good at the princess pose
but getting them to pose like this was a crowning achievement.
Look how little Peter Pan looks. Ok, it wasn't that hard to convince them to pose silly..
But that's part of the reason we love them...
Boys Land. I mean, Cars Land.
Beauty & the Beast
Outside of the ride of our lives: Indiana Jones
We made some wishes in this well
And we got photo-bombed by the ride operator on the Matterhorn. Only at Disneyland
Stacy didn't want to go on Storybook Canal Boats.
She will no longer admit it because it was so awesome
After a long day of magic, we drove back to NorCal. We went to work the next day, and resumed our lives as usual. But, we are not the same. Now, we are runners.
Key takeaways:
- Running is way better when you have a teammate
- If you are actually going to run, invest in the right clothes
- Running more than 7 miles is only enjoyable when there are fireworks and glitter
- My Garmin watch changed my life
- I am registering for the 2015 Tink Half. I've got my mom training too, and she is considering running it. This activity is contagious. We will work on better costumes for next time.
Stay tuned. There's bound to be more on this new part of my life.
xo,
Kate